About Men's Life Groups

What does it mean to be a man? At what point does a boy become a man? Is it determined by achievements, possessions, or a particular age? No, true manhood is measured by character, stature and spiritual strength. The Men’s Life Groups seeks to equip men to be godly leaders in every arena of life. Men who are R.E.A.L., who Reject passivity, Expect a greater reward, God’s reward, Accept responsibility and Lead courageously to the glory of God, will experience God’s best in their lives. Men are the primary influencers in their homes, communities, workplaces and churches. Because this is true, we offer short-term studies, accountability groups, breakfast gatherings and special events throughout the year. Our primary men’s short-term life groups are Chosen to Lead and Men’s Fraternity, details below. However, we have other life groups that meet at various days and times. Click the link below to search the men's life groups.

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DNA | July 18, 2021

Come learn more about the vision God has for VRL, our discipleship process, the beliefs that unify us and what makes VRL so great to be a part of.

Father's Day Car Show 2021

On Father’s Day, June 20th, Valley Real Life will be holding our VRL Father's Day Car Show featuring classic cars and hot rods from all around the Northwest. This Free Family friendly event will take place before and after each of our morning services starting at 7:30am and ending at 2:30pm. Bring the family and eat some lunch with us!

Family Feast Night

Join us on Thursdays, beginning June 17, 2021 at 5:30pm for Family Feast Nights! We will have dinner provided for you and your family to enjoy before our 6:30pm service. Weeknights don't get better than this! See you there!

Pure Desire

There is a battle going on with millions of victims trapped in the struggle of sexual addiction with no apparent way out. Pure Desire is the answer. Offered at the Barker campus Tuesday & Fridays and at the Otis campus on Monday evenings.

Men's Gathering

Let's gather men! On the 2nd Saturday of each month, 8am, we'll have donuts and intentional conversations. Join with the guys of VRL at our monthly gathering for guys only. Come hear a testimony, enjoy intentional discussions and make some new connections.

The Journey Continues

Join us for The Journey Continues launching on Tuesday, March 16th from 6:30-8:30pm. Through The Journey you will find a deeper sense of true peace and serenity, continue to restore and develop stronger relationships with others and with God, and find deeper freedom from life's hurts, habits, and hang-ups.